Find Your Fear. Find Your Way. Choose courage.

Find Your Fear. Find Your Way. Choose courage.

Find Your Fear?

I know. You’ve heard tall, booming voices implore you to “Face down your fear and conquer it!” and walk across coals of fire. And maybe you’ve been told that if you focus more on gratitude, your fear will vanish.

But “Find Your Fear“? Yes. My experience and research keep pointing back to this insight:

When we shed light on our darkest fears, we can make more enlightened choices for good work, strong relationships, effective parenting, rich creativity, and healthy money habits.

When you find your fear, you can find your way to choose courage again and again.

The Find Your Fear Resources here, based on my research and experience, get you on your way.

Voice Up: Your Guide to Difficult Conversations with Friends

Who doesn’t fear hurting someone’s feelings in difficult conversations? This free guide gives you smart insights into how to “voice up” in a way that empowers everyone.
Stories of 5 Valiant Fear Finders in Creativity, Business and Love
Get inspired to find your fear and take action from the models of Maya Angelou, Jane Goodall, Fred Rogers, and two other Valiant Fear Finders.



Sizing Up Friendships
March 22, 2019
Reasons why friendships deteriorate and what you can do about it.

I Was Diagnosed with Bipolar at 40

November 5, 2019

“As a little girl, I believed that a ghost lived in my closet.”

A Special Kind of Brain: Living with Nonverbal Learning Disability
A chronicle of experiences and insights from raising a child with nonverbal learning disorder.

Upcoming Events 


Workshop: SIP Session

April 14, 2020
Fear as friend, not foe: Nancy will conduct a workshop on how finding and embracing what scares us can launch us forward.

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I designed the Fear Finder Research Project to further my exploration of how fear manifests in our relationships, work and lifestyle choices. Please join hundreds of other folks, hailing from different backgrounds and life experiences, to provide this valuable feedback on how fear can get us stuck.. It will allow me to create more informed content and build effective frameworks to help you embrace fear and make more enlightened choices on your path toward courageous living. Rest assured: I honor all participant privacy.

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